Intimacy and Pleasure Blog

Ask Beth: Does Size REALLY Matter?

Posted by Beth Darling on Feb 3rd 2022

Dear Beth Darling, Before we got together, my girlfriend dated a mutual friend for several years and he was “very well endowed”. I’m afraid that I can’t possibly satisfy her, even though she clai … read more

Ask Beth: The Benefits of A Little Education

Posted by Beth Darling on Jan 12th 2022

Dear Beth Darling, Wife and I have been in a LTR with a very vanilla sex life - typically missionary with minimal foreplay. Neither of us had much experience with other partners before getting into o … read more

Ask Beth: Cuff Me Tender

Posted by Beth Darling on Jan 6th 2022

Dear Beth Darling,I want to add handcuffs to our sex life with my husband (30 M). We’ve been together for 10 years and have really been working on our sexual compatibility lately to become stronger an … read more

Ask Beth: To Porn or Not To Porn

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 17th 2021

Dear Beth Darling,Wife and I have been in a LTR with a very vanilla sex life - typically missionary with minimal foreplay. Neither of us had much experience with other partners before getting into our … read more

Ask Beth: The Pleasure of Clamps

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 1st 2021

My partner suggested we get some nipple clamps- but I’m afraid of them because I’m not into pain. They think I’d like them because I have very sensitive nipples but I think that’s why I shouldn’t use … read more

Ask Beth: Any Which Way But Down

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 18th 2021

Dear Beth Darling,I’ve been dating this really cool woman for almost 6 months now, and she’s great and we have good sex but she won’t let me go down on her even though I really want to. I’ve told her … read more