Intimacy and Pleasure Blog

Beth, I’m married to a good man, and after more than ten years together I still love him, but I’m really not that into him sexually anymore. Frankly, I find myself just having sex with him when h … read more

Dear Beth, I’m a single, straight man, 43 y/o and I like to dress well and look sharp, just like the women I date care about what they wear. Over the years I’ve bought lots of lingerie for girlfr … read more

Join Sara's Secret's Sexy Genius Beth Darling as she tells us why BDSM is the Jazz of Sex! … read more

BDSM is everywhere now in pop culture. You’ve seen dungeons and more in “50 Shades of Grey”, “Billions”, and “Bonding”. But what is “real” BDSM? Why do people like it? Is it possible to be in … read more

Beth,Why are all the sex toys for women?? Don’t get me wrong, I’m a married man and happy to buy more vibrators for my wife. We've got more than a few and it’s fun to use them on her. But every once i … read more

Beth, I'm 35 y/o but have an irrational fear of blow jobs. I can't really explain it, only given maybe 5 to my ex-husband. (6 years) In the last two years since my divorce, I've tried to give a few b … read more