Intimacy and Pleasure Blog

How Much is Too Much?

Posted by Beth Darling on May 20th 2024

How Much is Too Much?
Dear Beth, How do I know if I masturbate too much? I'm a 36 y/o married man, but my wife and I only have sex once every couple of weeks so I jerk off almost every day but then I feel bad about it.&n … read more

Better in Bed

Posted by Beth Darling on May 10th 2024

Better in Bed
Beth, I’m recently divorced and starting to date again but am really nervous. I’ve only been with three women in my life even though I’m 43. My wife and I had a terrible sex life and now that she … read more

Dildo vs. Vibrator

Posted by Beth Darling on Apr 20th 2024

Dildo vs. Vibrator
Dear Beth, Is there a difference between a dildo and a vibrator.  If so, what is it? Thanks, C.P. Dear C.P., I get this question all the time, thanks for giving me a chance to respon … read more

Frequently Frustrated

Posted by Beth Darling on Mar 14th 2024

Dear Beth, I went out with a cool guy that I’ve liked for a while, but when we got to my place, he took care of himself in bed and then left me frustrated. He’s texted me to get together again bu … read more

Smooth Operator

Posted by Beth Darling on Feb 21st 2024

Smooth Operator
Dear Beth, I spend a lot of time and effort getting ready for dates with my boyfriend. I make sure my legs are always shaved and I get waxed regularly. My boyfriend does nothing, even though he … read more