Intimacy and Pleasure Blog

Dear Beth, I went out with a cool guy that I’ve liked for a while, but when we got to my place, he took care of himself in bed and then left me frustrated. He’s texted me to get together again bu … read more

Dear Beth, I spend a lot of time and effort getting ready for dates with my boyfriend. I make sure my legs are always shaved and I get waxed regularly. My boyfriend does nothing, even though he … read more

Dear Beth, Over the last few months, I’ve avoided sex with my husband because it’s beenpainful. It’s never been like this before and I don’t know what to do. Any advice?Crying Quietly Oh, Crying … read more

Dear Beth, My husband thinks the way for us to stop fighting is to have sex because he and his ex used to have great angry sex. Seems to me that he’s just trying to distract us from the problem, … read more

Dear Beth, My wife goes overboard with holiday planning and then is “too tired” for sex which gets me mad so we end up fighting. What should I do? Frustrated Fred Dear Fru … read more

Dear Beth, My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years and we don’t have kids. Instead of getting easier, it’s getting harder. We fight more than ever before and I can’t take much more … read more