Intimacy and Pleasure Blog

Dear Beth, Whenever I’m attracted to someone, I feel this intense pull. But I’m never sure if it’s lust or love. I’ve heard people say lust fades and love lasts, but what reall … read more

Dear Beth, I adore my partner, and I’m only 33 years old, but penetrative sex has started to hurt. I know using lube would help, but every time I even think about bringing it up, I get scared he … read more

Hello Beth, My husband’s been struggling a bit with erections lately. Not every time, but enough that it’s starting to mess with his confidence. A friend told me prostate massage might hel … read more

Hey Beth, I swear I love Christmas, but the second the kids are home and the house turns into a circus, all the fun drains out of it.  My wife’s running around stressed, trying to handle gi … read more

Holidays can be joyful, sparkly, and sentimental. It can also feel like running a marathon in snow boots while juggling shopping lists, travel plans, house guests, and emotional landmines. No wonder r … read more

Dear Beth, My boyfriend keeps hinting that he’d love for me to take charge and tie him up during sex. I really want to try, but honestly, I’m nervous. I’m not a dominant person at al … read more