Our Secrets

Dear Beth, My boyfriend won’t have sex with me while I’m on my period even though I want it. We live 100 miles apart and only see each other every other weekend. Since I bleed for a whole week, i … read more

Beth Darling talks about female orgasm with some helpful facts about anatomy. The female clitoris is the spot for orgasm through direct stimulation for 75% of women. Beth uses a pillow designed t … read more

Dear Beth, I was looking for a remote controlled vibrator for my wife because we saw one in a movie recently. Then I saw app controlled ones, too. Which do you recommend and why? Jerry J. Oh … read more

Dear Beth, Sometimes I like really slow, intimate sex. Sometimes I like just doing whatever my partner wants and letting him lead. Sometimes I like taking the lead. When I take the lead, I can ge … read more

Dear Beth, My girlfriend told me that she wants me to take charge and be more dominant during sex, but I don’t know what to do. Am I supposed to just boss her around? Tim Dear … read more

Dear Beth, My husband of 6 years, has always been obsessed with wanting me to give him massages.He doesn't always need it to be a "happy ending." I can’t stand that any time we have down-time to … read more