Our Secrets

Frequently Frustrated

Posted by Beth Darling on Mar 14th 2024

Frequently Frustrated
Dear Beth, I went out with a cool guy that I’ve liked for a while, but when we got to my place, he took care of himself in bed and then left me frustrated. He’s texted me to get together again bu … read more

Smooth Operator

Posted by Beth Darling on Feb 22nd 2024

Smooth Operator
Dear Beth, I spend a lot of time and effort getting ready for dates with my boyfriend. I make sure my legs are always shaved and I get waxed regularly. My boyfriend does nothing, even though he … read more

Crying Quietly

Posted by Beth Darling on Feb 5th 2024

Crying Quietly
Dear Beth, Over the last few months, I’ve avoided sex with my husband because it’s beenpainful. It’s never been like this before and I don’t know what to do. Any advice?Crying Quietly Oh, Crying … read more

Amorous and Angry?

Posted by Beth Darling on Jan 23rd 2024

Amorous and Angry?
Dear Beth, My husband thinks the way for us to stop fighting is to have sex because he and his ex used to have great angry sex. Seems to me that he’s just trying to distract us from the problem, … read more

Finding Sexy During the Holidays

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 21st 2023

Finding Sexy During the Holidays
Dear Beth, My wife goes overboard with holiday planning and then is “too tired” for sex which gets me mad so we end up fighting. What should I do? Frustrated Fred Dear Fru … read more

A Fair Fight

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 2nd 2023

A Fair Fight
Dear Beth, My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years and we don’t have kids. Instead of getting easier, it’s getting harder. We fight more than ever before and I can’t take much more … read more