Our Secrets

Dear Beth, I’ve heard you talk about your 5 Kinds of Intimacy, but how do I know if we have emotional intimacy in our marriage? Thanks for clarifying. Rachel J. Great question, Rachel! If you’ … read more

Dear Beth, I’m about to lose it! My wife is furious at me for wanting sex because she said I should have known that she was exhausted. Last week she chewed me up just for asking her if we could s … read more

Dear Beth, I’m in my early 40’s and have been married to my husband for five years. We’re pretty happy together and have had a good sex life. Lately things are changing. He’s always struggle … read more

Question:  My boyfriend wants us to make a sex tape and thinks I’m being a prude because I don’t. He says it’s not a big deal and everyone makes them these days- is that true? ~ Laura An … read more

Dear Beth, I’ve been married for 16 years and love my husband, but am frustrated because even though we have all sorts of vibrators, our sex life is still not great. My friends think I’m crazy fo … read more

Dear Beth, My wife has never used a vibrator but has finally agreed to try one, even though she’s scared. The problem is she wants me to pick one for her. I want to make a good choice but there … read more