Our Secrets

Playing with Power

Posted by Beth Darling on Mar 23rd 2023

Dear Beth, My girlfriend told me that she wants me to take charge and be more dominant during sex, but I don’t know what to do. Am I supposed to just boss her around? Tim Dear … read more

To Massage Or Not?

Posted by Beth Darling on Feb 23rd 2023

Dear Beth, My husband of 6 years, has always been obsessed with wanting me to give him massages.He doesn't always need it to be a "happy ending." I can’t stand that any time we have down-time to … read more

More Than A Tap

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 29th 2022

Dear Beth, I’m a southern gentleman who learned never to hit a woman. Problem is, my girlfriend of two years keeps asking me to spank her. I’ve given her a few love taps, but she wants more. I … read more

Wake Up Potion

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 1st 2022

Dear Beth, I’m a mom of two kids and have kind of lost my libido. It also takes me a lot longer to orgasm. A lot of times I don’t orgasm at all, which never used to happen. My husband wa … read more

Sexy Education

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 23rd 2022

Dear Beth, My husband is a great guy and we are very happy together. He comes from a religious family and even after 16 years together, there are some big hangups about sex. He knows I have a … read more

Emotional Intimacy

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 17th 2022

Dear Beth, I’ve heard you talk about your 5 Kinds of Intimacy, but how do I know if we have emotional intimacy in our marriage? Thanks for clarifying. Rachel J. Great question, Rachel! If you’ … read more