Our Secrets

Dear Beth, Sometimes I like really slow, intimate sex. Sometimes I like just doing whatever my partner wants and letting him lead. Sometimes I like taking the lead. When I take the lead, I can ge … read more

Dear Beth, My girlfriend told me that she wants me to take charge and be more dominant during sex, but I don’t know what to do. Am I supposed to just boss her around? Tim Dear … read more

Dear Beth, My husband of 6 years, has always been obsessed with wanting me to give him massages.He doesn't always need it to be a "happy ending." I can’t stand that any time we have down-time to … read more

Dear Beth, I’m a southern gentleman who learned never to hit a woman. Problem is, my girlfriend of two years keeps asking me to spank her. I’ve given her a few love taps, but she wants more. I … read more

Dear Beth, I’m a mom of two kids and have kind of lost my libido. It also takes me a lot longer to orgasm. A lot of times I don’t orgasm at all, which never used to happen. My husband wa … read more

Dear Beth, My husband is a great guy and we are very happy together. He comes from a religious family and even after 16 years together, there are some big hangups about sex. He knows I have a … read more