Our Secrets

Fun and Safe: Dating Apps

Posted by Beth Darling on Jul 7th 2023

Fun and Safe: Dating Apps
Dear Beth, Two years ago I got divorced after a nine-year marriage to my college sweetheart. I'm ready to date again. I am interested in trying an online dating app, but my friends think it's too … read more

Sexy Shopping

Posted by Beth Darling on Jun 16th 2023

Sexy Shopping
My wife refuses to come with me to Sara’s Secret, even though I’ve asked her repeatedly. She says she’s glad when I go because she enjoys the vibrators I've bought her. I don’t like going alone. Ho … read more

Compassion Over Comparison

Posted by Beth Darling on Jun 9th 2023

Compassion Over Comparison
Dear Beth, I got divorced a year ago after being married for 15 years. Besides my husband, I haven’t had much sexual experience. A couple of months ago I started dating a man that I really like. … read more

Stirring the Paint

Posted by Beth Darling on May 7th 2023

Stirring the Paint
Dear Beth, My boyfriend won’t have sex with me while I’m on my period even though I want it. We live 100 miles apart and only see each other every other weekend. Since I bleed for a whole week, i … read more

No More Boring Dinner Dates

Posted by Beth Darling on Apr 16th 2023

No More Boring Dinner Dates
Dear Beth, I was looking for a remote controlled vibrator for my wife because we saw one in a movie recently. Then I saw app controlled ones, too. Which do you recommend and why? Jerry J. Oh … read more

Bossy in Bed

Posted by Beth Darling on Apr 8th 2023

Dear Beth, Sometimes I like really slow, intimate sex. Sometimes I like just doing whatever my partner wants and letting him lead. Sometimes I like taking the lead. When I take the lead, I can ge … read more