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Hi, Beth, My partner keeps asking me about my sexual fantasies, but I don’t have any. Is this weird? Wondering Wanda Dear Wanda Not at all! Everyone experiences their sexuality differently. Some … read more

Beth, My husband gets really upset and angry when I don’t want to have sex. I mean, he’s not abusive or anything, but it’s obviously a big deal to him. He says he doesn’t ask that often so I should … read more

Dear Beth, I went out with a cool guy that I’ve liked for a while, but when we got to my place, he took care of himself in bed and then left me frustrated. He’s texted me to get together again bu … read more

Dear Beth, I spend a lot of time and effort getting ready for dates with my boyfriend. I make sure my legs are always shaved and I get waxed regularly. My boyfriend does nothing, even though he … read more

Dear Beth, Over the last few months, I’ve avoided sex with my husband because it’s beenpainful. It’s never been like this before and I don’t know what to do. Any advice?Crying Quietly Oh, Crying … read more

Dear Beth, My husband thinks the way for us to stop fighting is to have sex because he and his ex used to have great angry sex. Seems to me that he’s just trying to distract us from the problem, … read more