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Better in Bed

Posted by Beth Darling on May 10th 2024

Better in Bed
Beth, I’m recently divorced and starting to date again but am really nervous. I’ve only been with three women in my life even though I’m 43. My wife and I had a terrible sex life and now that she … read more

Dildo vs. Vibrator

Posted by Beth Darling on Apr 20th 2024

Dildo vs. Vibrator
Dear Beth, Is there a difference between a dildo and a vibrator.  If so, what is it? Thanks, C.P. Dear C.P., I get this question all the time, thanks for giving me a chance to respon … read more

Airport Acquaintances

Posted by Beth Darling on Jan 8th 2024

Airport Acquaintances
Dear Beth, I saw a good looking woman without a wedding ring in the airport the other day, but didn’t know how to ask her out without. I hear women complaining about cheesy pickup lines and … read more

Navigating Grief Together

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 8th 2023

Navigating Grief Together
Dear Friend,I usually love writing to you; it's one of my favorite things. But today, I'm coming to you with a truly broken heart.The past few weeks have been brutal for me as I mourn the loss of my b … read more

Mindgasms!

Posted by Beth Darling on Oct 5th 2023

Mindgasms!
Hi Beth, Strange question, but my friend says she can orgasm without touching herself, is that even possible? If so, please tell me how! Doubting Debbie Dear Debbie, … read more