Our Secrets

Airport Acquaintances

Posted by Beth Darling on Jan 8th 2024

Airport Acquaintances
Dear Beth, I saw a good looking woman without a wedding ring in the airport the other day, but didn’t know how to ask her out without. I hear women complaining about cheesy pickup lines and … read more

Finding Sexy During the Holidays

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 21st 2023

Finding Sexy During the Holidays
Dear Beth, My wife goes overboard with holiday planning and then is “too tired” for sex which gets me mad so we end up fighting. What should I do? Frustrated Fred Dear Fru … read more

Navigating Grief Together

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 8th 2023

Navigating Grief Together
Dear Friend,I usually love writing to you; it's one of my favorite things. But today, I'm coming to you with a truly broken heart.The past few weeks have been brutal for me as I mourn the loss of my b … read more

Tantric Sex Time

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 9th 2023

Tantric Sex Time
Hi Beth, I’ve heard people talking about tantric sex, but even after 19 years of marriage, I’m still not sure what it is or why it’s popular. Is it something you do by yourself or with a partner? … read more