Our Secrets

Sexy Education

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 23rd 2022

Dear Beth, My husband is a great guy and we are very happy together. He comes from a religious family and even after 16 years together, there are some big hangups about sex. He knows I have a … read more

Emotional Intimacy

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 17th 2022

Dear Beth, I’ve heard you talk about your 5 Kinds of Intimacy, but how do I know if we have emotional intimacy in our marriage? Thanks for clarifying. Rachel J. Great question, Rachel! If you’ … read more

Read My Mind

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 11th 2022

Dear Beth, I’m about to lose it! My wife is furious at me for wanting sex because she said I should have known that she was exhausted. Last week she chewed me up just for asking her if we could s … read more

Loving All of Me

Posted by Beth Darling on Oct 20th 2022

Dear Beth, I’m in my early 40’s and have been married to my husband for five years. We’re pretty happy together and have had a good sex life. Lately things are changing. He’s always struggle … read more

The Clit is It!

Posted by Beth Darling on Sep 23rd 2022

Dear Beth, I can't orgasm through penetration alone, even after 8 months with my boyfriend that I love very much. This never bothered me before, but my boyfriend swears that he was able to teach … read more

Need A New Motion

Posted by Beth Darling on Aug 31st 2022

Dear Beth, I love my husband but I’m not really into him physically anymore and don’t know what to do. We have sex a couple of times a month and it’s ok, but it’s not something I look forward … read more