Our Secrets

Dear Beth, My husband is a great guy and we are very happy together. He comes from a religious family and even after 16 years together, there are some big hangups about sex. He knows I have a … read more

Dear Beth, I’ve heard you talk about your 5 Kinds of Intimacy, but how do I know if we have emotional intimacy in our marriage? Thanks for clarifying. Rachel J. Great question, Rachel! If you’ … read more

Dear Beth, I’m about to lose it! My wife is furious at me for wanting sex because she said I should have known that she was exhausted. Last week she chewed me up just for asking her if we could s … read more

Dear Beth, I’m in my early 40’s and have been married to my husband for five years. We’re pretty happy together and have had a good sex life. Lately things are changing. He’s always struggle … read more

Dear Beth, I can't orgasm through penetration alone, even after 8 months with my boyfriend that I love very much. This never bothered me before, but my boyfriend swears that he was able to teach … read more

Dear Beth, I love my husband but I’m not really into him physically anymore and don’t know what to do. We have sex a couple of times a month and it’s ok, but it’s not something I look forward … read more