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Finding Sexy During the Holidays

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 21st 2023

Finding Sexy During the Holidays
Dear Beth, My wife goes overboard with holiday planning and then is “too tired” for sex which gets me mad so we end up fighting. What should I do? Frustrated Fred Dear Fru … read more

Navigating Grief Together

Posted by Beth Darling on Dec 8th 2023

Navigating Grief Together
Dear Friend,I usually love writing to you; it's one of my favorite things. But today, I'm coming to you with a truly broken heart.The past few weeks have been brutal for me as I mourn the loss of my b … read more

Tantric Sex Time

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 10th 2023

Tantric Sex Time
Hi Beth, I’ve heard people talking about tantric sex, but even after 19 years of marriage, I’m still not sure what it is or why it’s popular. Is it something you do by yourself or with a partner? … read more

A Fair Fight

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 2nd 2023

A Fair Fight
Dear Beth, My wife and I have been married for almost 5 years and we don’t have kids. Instead of getting easier, it’s getting harder. We fight more than ever before and I can’t take much more … read more