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Worried About My Lips

Posted by Beth Darling on Nov 8th 2024

Worried About My Lips
Dear Beth, I’ve always been self-conscious about my vagina because one side is noticeably longer than the other. I’m single and always nervous with new partners because I’m afraid they’ll think i … read more

Nervous To Tell

Posted by Beth Darling on Oct 17th 2024

Nervous To Tell
Dear Beth, I’m single and was just diagnosed with herpes last year after going out with a woman for a couple of months who didn’t tell me she had it. She swears she didn’t know she had it, but I’ … read more

Great Sex During Pregnancy

Posted by Beth Darling on Sep 16th 2024

Great Sex During Pregnancy
Dear Beth, I’m finally pregnant with our first baby after almost a year of trying! Now my husband is kind of freaking out about sex. He says he’s scared it’s going to hurt the baby even though m … read more

Eating Your Way to Better Sex

Posted by Beth Darling on Aug 30th 2024

Eating Your Way to Better Sex
Dear Beth, My husband is a real “meat and potatoes” guy who rarely eats vegetables even though the doctor tells him he needs to for his health. But he listens to you. So I wondered if you think … read more

Handling Sexual Rejection

Posted by Beth Darling on Jul 22nd 2024

Handling Sexual Rejection
Beth, My husband gets really upset and angry when I don’t want to have sex. I mean, he’s not abusive or anything, but it’s obviously a big deal to him. He says he doesn’t ask that often so I … read more